AJ Kehl
U.S. Air Force
U.S. Air Force Veteran, career firefighter
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Frame from Redefining Veteran Healing w/ Shields and Stripes | AJ KEHL
The story
In their words
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Hear it at 9:11“I think the biggest revelation of it all was that it really was a safe environment.”
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Hear it at 9:42“I listed them all out and it was the first time in my life that I saw all these things on paper and we just started attacking them.”
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Hear it at 10:05“If I could see something right here, after I did EMDR, it was like way off in the distance.”
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Hear it at 14:46“I realized in that moment that our top leadership across the Department of Defense, I think they genuinely care.”
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Hear it at 14:56“I don't think they fully understand, and neither do I, to be frank, how to stop it.”
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Hear it at 15:20“What if that helped just one person get off the ledge? That would be a win, I think.”
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Hear it at 30:39“I’ll tell you this, I learned calm is contagious.”
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Hear it at 38:35“Your rank means nothing when you get out, man.”
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Hear it at 38:43“The next, I walk outside here in Vegas and I'm like, hello, does anybody need me? Can I help anybody?”
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Hear it at 38:50“Your rank has nothing to do with anything, man. Your character, your integrity would be the only things that go forward.”
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Hear it at 39:22“We are very marketable. We come with great experience, education, and these soft skills that I think a lot of these big companies are looking for.”
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Hear it at 39:39“Start going to medical, because nobody gives a [care] about your medical problems except for you.”
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Hear it at 42:14“When you go to do your disability claim, I found that you need help. I didn't know what to do exactly.”
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Hear it at 44:01“Everyone has it worse and better than you. But that doesn't mean that you're not important and that you didn't serve.”
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Hear it at 47:32“I deepen relationships with people when we’re talking real.”
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From the written story“Nobody was really asking how the caretaker was doing.”
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From the written story“There is an identity crisis that comes out of twenty plus years. You have to learn how to be a civilian.”
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